If you are dating a girl with depression or anxiety..She is going to be tired, constantly, so don't let her stay in bed.
She is not going to want to eat, make her food any way.
She is going to cancel any plans just to go home and stay in bed, take her out dancing, take her out for a movie or even for an ice cream.
She will look like she is not in the mood to be silly and happy, make her laugh any way.
Shes is going to want to cry over a spilled coffee or a drink, don't make it look like is not a big deal or that she is being dramatic.
She is going to be happy and sad at the same time for no reason, and I know that sounds crazy but is TRUE.
She is going to need constantly reassurance that she is beautiful, so never stop telling her.
She is going to constantly need reassurance that you are not going to leave her, this doesn't mean she is doubting you or questioning your love.
Depression comes with anxiety, it comes with no appetite, it comes with 10 hours sleep and waking up still feeling tired, it comes with the illusion of being in a room with 100 people, and you are invisible to all of them.
It doesn't make sense, it's impossible to understand, if you are not living with it, so imagine how she feel... Depression is fighting an internal battle.So be that support system she needs, be the reassurance she need, be the love she needs, and NEVER, NEVER GIVE UP ON HER.
An advice from the girl who constantly need reassurance, but dated and married the man who never give up on her.
With LOVE, A. xx
